Dear Rev. Lynn:
David and I would like to offer our most sincere thanks to you for making our wedding such a lovely, and in fact perfect occasion.
Once we met you, we began thinking differently about our wedding. Having both been married before, we wanted to do it right this time, and to take some time to really think about what our wedding should be. You were completely accommodating and gave us your commitment to work with us while also offering us the time and space to think through our ceremony.
You guided us and helped us organize our thoughts. With your inspiration and only one week to spare, we wrote meaningful words to each other, passionately and with no reservations. You immediately recognized the intense, personal nature of our vows and suggested we read them to each other instead of having you read them, to which we wholeheartedly agreed. You also asked us to address David’s three children, which we hadn’t thought of and found to be immensely important to them and for the joining of our families. Again, your flexibility, wisdom and experience allowed our desires for our ceremony to emerge.
When you pronounced us husband and wife, a gust of wind blew petals through the trees and onto us in the center, as if nature was on our very side. A passerby asked you shortly before the ceremony whether ours was a “real” wedding or a movie shoot. Thanks to your brilliant participation and our unusual, powerful love, we like to think it was a little of both.
Love,
Lauren and David